Be So You is for midlife women who want to feel like themselves in their clothes again. Discover affordable style that's equal parts polished and comfortable, for the body you have now.
Hi, I'm Marya. So glad you're here!
Midlife changed my body. I still want to feel like myself in my clothes.
I went from a size 6 to a size 10/12, and the outfits that used to work… don’t anymore. I’ve spent the last several years rebuilding my wardrobe one piece at a time, figuring out what works for a soft belly, thicker thighs, changing proportions, and a body that no longer fits the old style “rules.”
If you’re navigating midlife body changes too, you’re in the right place. I’m sharing everything I’ve learned while rebuilding my wardrobe, so you can feel like yourself in your clothes again.
Fit Note: I’m a midsized triangle body shape at 5’6″, with a 36B bust and size 10/12 jeans.
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9 Ways to Wear Untucked Tops With Wide-Leg Jeans and a Soft Belly
See 9 tops to wear with wide-leg jeans when a fitted tucked-in tee isn’t your first choice, styled on a curvy size 10 body with a soft belly.
5 Early Fall Work Outfits for Women Over 50 With a Soft Belly
See 5 polished early fall work outfits for women over 50, with a comfy dress, trousers, light layers, and soft-belly-friendly styling ideas.
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Ready to design an aligned life that's uniquely perfect for you?
One of my favorite tools to do that is Human Design. It’s a synthesis of systems and science that uses your birth information to reveal who you are and what you’re here to do in this lifetime.
In this Quick Start Guide to Human Design for Midlife Women, I’ll guide you through your chart. You’ll come to understand what your type reveals about purpose, personality, and unique energy configuration so you can dance your own dance and live out your unique brand of magic.
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